Help ! marriage fraud in canada?

i'm going to try and keep my question short .





in april 2009 i went and got married in the philippines , stayed 4 weeks and went back home .


due to problems with her attitude and her wanting money for support and her spending too fast on who knows ( she can't justify it ) i froze , i was shocked with her attitude , so i stop sending money for a while .





i had trouble doing the sponsorship paper work due to lack of time and i could not get cic on the phone ( always busy for weeks and months ) so long delays due to that .





the relationship was difficult due to many things , the main one was money and her expectations .


and some relatives ( her male cousin trying to get my help to find him a job in canada ).





this is a long story so i'll skip to the present , the process took from september 22 ,2010 to july 26 2011 when they issued the visa by mail .





she arrived in canada september 12 2011 , i picked her up at the airport and took her home .





the problem is she avoided being intimate and after a few days she did not want me to touch her at all and did not want to talk to me .





her english is ok but not great , but she understands english perfectly .


anyways she spent her time playing games on the computer and chatting with her friends and cousin who work in hong kong and dubai as domestics .





the first thing she did when she got here is she wanted to find a job , so i was willing to try and help her with that , but she asked me where is toronto , i told her it's 300 miles away from where we live .





she was making contacts with her cousin online with people in toronto to find her a job there , when i saw this i asked her what are you doing making contacts with people in toronto .





she said she will find a job anywhere , so the relationship is a fraud as she came here just to get a job.





in addition to this she never unpacked her bags , she does not clean the dishes and house work .


she cooks her own and eats what i cook if she wants it .





she no longer wants to stay with me and now she wants me to buy her an air ticket back home to the philippines .





i'm laid off work right now waiting to be recalled and i don't have cash to buy a ticket .


a ticket is about $1,000.00 one way to the philippines .





i called an immigration lawyer in ottawa and told them my problem , they said it's obviously marriage fraud , so i sent them an e-mail describing my situation and the lawyer transmitted this information to canada border services and they said they will investigate by contacting me shortly .





i spent 3 years of my life and well over $20,000.00 on this marriage and she does this to me .


help i need some good advice .|||It defintely appears a case of marriage fraud. I feel you should site down with her and clarify things once for all to be sure.





Canada Immigration is taking such issues very seriously and has opened a tip line to report such cases. I suggest report this case to tipline at cic.gc.ca using the approriate link|||I wouldn't bother any longer with that person. You intentionally spent those 20,000 CAD so it is personally your MISTAKE. You could have her working for you and make some sort of deal that she will likely refuse.